I have concluded

That trust issues come from 1 of 2 different ways.

Either that someone have you a reason not to trust them

or you gave yourself a reason not to trust them.

Why do people get these? You talk to a lot of people and a lot of people when it comes down to it have "trust" issues. What does that mean? Ya don't trust your significant other when they go out? Then why are you dating them?

1) I find it more it's because most people are guilty of their fears. People have these trust issues becuase they don't want their "significant" other pulling the same shit they are. They devolp these issues from guilt. It eats away at them. The second you're alone you start talking to someone else.. in a way you shouldn't if you're dating someone else. So then currently you're backstabbing the one you're dating or whatever.. then it hits you.. what if their doing the same thing? How do I know they aren't texting other boys/girls when I'm not around. What if they're not really going home.. what if they went somewhere else.. like I did last night? What if their using the same lines on another boy/girl? What if they are saying the same stuff I am when he/she is gone? Then these trust issues form. You start acting irrational on you're significant other because you fear they are doing exactly what you have been doing.

2) Then of course you got the other side. The people who have trust issues becuase they gave you a reason. You caught them lying, red handed in the act. What do you do form there? What if it keeps reoccurring? Is it possible for someone to stop after being busted 3 or 4 times? As being positive as I am, yes I would like to think it's possible.. but logically is it? After 1 or 2 times you develope these trust issues and it turns into a lot more. So what do you do form there?

All you people with trust issues. Which one would you say is your reason?

1 or 2?

... or both?